The tug
It’s that momentum which leans you into a kiss. It’s the electricity that buzzes around you. It’s that overall feeling of wanting to be as close as humanely possible to them.
The tug. It’s a powerful and addictive thing.
But is it essential at the start?
Do you learn to be more realistic and pragmatic about meeting somebody the older you get? Or is this a symptom that only the most common-sense rational being adopts to relationships?
There are two schools of thought here I have gleaned from my ‘market research’.
The first being that the tug is not necessary at the beginning stages but can evolve as a result of getting to know someone more intimately.
The other school suggests that the tug is compulsory right from the start. If it’s not there, it won’t ever arise – no matter what efforts of positive thinking go into the mix.
Oh my god this is tricky. And I doubt that Phil or Oprah can assist.
The tug. It’s a powerful and addictive thing.
But is it essential at the start?
Do you learn to be more realistic and pragmatic about meeting somebody the older you get? Or is this a symptom that only the most common-sense rational being adopts to relationships?
There are two schools of thought here I have gleaned from my ‘market research’.
The first being that the tug is not necessary at the beginning stages but can evolve as a result of getting to know someone more intimately.
The other school suggests that the tug is compulsory right from the start. If it’s not there, it won’t ever arise – no matter what efforts of positive thinking go into the mix.
Oh my god this is tricky. And I doubt that Phil or Oprah can assist.
posted by Zap at
5:24 pm
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